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Why do some people enjoy being dominated?

10.06.2025 10:12

Why do some people enjoy being dominated?

I applied to serve a gay Master I chatted with online , and after my first session being used , I knew being dominated was something that REALLY turned me on , and after the 2nd session , I knew I wanted to be owned…. I realised this when I did things for the dom that weren’t my kinks , ie licking his feet & sucking his toes…..does nothing for me and wouldn’t do it unless ordered to - but I’d get rock hard doing bit because it pleased my Master soooooo much!! I found it an interesting paradigm , where not being touched at all , and spending the entire time doing to him exactly what he wanted , while being in various states of blindfolded, gagged, in a hood , always wearing my collar , restrained , spanked & whipped and pics videos taken of me being dominated , turned me on immensely , and I’d be hard many times for weeks afterwards , just recalling how I was used , and how proud I was to get compliments and praise for my service…..

Pic below is one my Master sent me one day with message “One of my slaves (me) playing with my nipples before I cum in his mouth , again!”

A year later the couple visited , we were having an all nighter……hubby said to his sub wife “Get on your knees and suck my cock” ….It turned me on how she obeyed him - I’d never watched sub/dom porn , had never thought about it. Then hubby told her to suck my cock…. If not that night , very soon afterwards , I knew I wanted to explore submissive play with an alpha male

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Met a couple on a swingers site 15 years ago. Wife was a sub to dom hubby , she made quality collars, whips etc….I helped them with debt recovery and she gave me a set of hand made leather wrist / ankle restraints, collar & whip. I remember being embarrassed & thought I might offend them, by saying “I’m not in to that…” I ended up giving them to a sexy ebony tranny if she let me spank her, pull her panties down and give her a light flogging!!